Break free from the prison of your perfectionism

Feel relaxed and confident when you discover the life you're meant to live

You'd love to live a much more relaxed life, with less stress caused by your high standards.

You always try so hard and you're so afraid to fail. To not be good enough. It's exhausting. You'd want nothing more than to know how to change this. 

You want to be able to relax when you get home, and not think about work all the time. But right now, that's not an option: your thoughts about everything you have to do are taking over your entire life. 

You'd also like to find out what it is that you're truly great at and what makes you happy. Your biggest fear is to spend the rest of your life at a job/in a relationship/... (fill in the blank) that doesn't suit you. 

If only you were able to find balance, to be satisfied with less than a 100% all the time. Trusting yourself regardless of your results would make your life so much easier. 

I know exactly how you feel..  

About seven years ago, I went through a hard time. After studying psychology, I started working. Holy shit, that was rough!  

I did a management traineeship with a large company and I was extremely anxious about not performing good enough. I felt constantly stressed out and I couldn't believe that this feeling would ever truly go away. I felt like a misfit in the big bad world of grown-ups. 

Maybe you've read a ton of self-help books. I know I have! Maybe you've tried meditating daily (but my god, how hard is it to keep that commitment when you're already so busy?). 

I felt like a complete loser for not being able to 'just' work in a relaxed way. Recognise any of this?You are not alone honey!

This is exactly the reason I have created the V.I.P.-pogram for perfectionists. To help smart women like you to live life the way it was meant: much more carefree and joyful! 

Free online consultation 

(or, as I like to call it: an online chat) for perfectionists

How does applying for the free consultation work?

I'd love to schedule an online chat with you so you can find out what life would look like without the burden of perfectionism. No strings attached! 

It's super easy: you click on the button below. This will take you to a form with some questions. After you've filled it out, I will contact you to schedule a date.  

The call will be on me and take about 30 minutes. It's set up in a way so we can discover whether working together would be great for the both of us.  


Testimonials

"Before I started, I doubted whether this program would really make a difference. Wouldn't talking to Evelien be the same as talking to my friends?

But in our first chat I immediately discovered how well Evelien understands my thoughts and my behaviors. She has gone through the exact same thing. That's why I really recommend working with her to all perfectionists out there!

Right now I feel much more relaxed, in work and in my personal life. I am able to calmly handle things I used to freak out about. 

If you're open to change, please book this call. You won't regret it!"

Ann (25, Communications)


"I've made quite the change over the last couple of months. I'm less perfectionist at work, yesterday I sent out an e-mail which I hadn't checked a gazillion times!

I am also much better at setting boundaries now, both at work and in my personal life. For example, I told my friend that I'd be needing some alone time during our trip together. I'm definitely making progress!"  

Isabel (39, Social worker)



"I was definitely on the fence about joining the VIP-program. But I'm beyond happy that I did. I am now much better at setting boundaries and taking rest. These used to be my biggest issues. " 

Wietske (24, Student)  

"I really wasn’t sure about coaching, but I felt like I had to try something because I was just so stressed about work.

I really want to thank Evelien - our sessions started to make me think and challenge myself - this is more than I expected coaching to actually do for me!"  

Marianne (33, Senior Brand Manager)  


"I really loved this program. Eveliens ability to ask the right questions and her genuine support continue to amaze me. 

I recently decided to quit my job and go abroad for a couple of months. A decision I don't know I could've made without Eveliens coaching!"  

Janneke (33, Projectmanager)  

"I've disvovered that perfectionism is not something that defines who you are. Instead it's a state of mind which you can turn off - with some tips, tricks & practice.  

Loved the coaching calls: down to earth, very grounded with a sense of humor, practical tips to be kind to myself and sometimes a good cry. Excellent!"

Maaike (35, Manager)


"What I like about the VIP program is that it's so personal. Evelien is very much herself, she really cares about her clients and can also be straight to the point when necessary. I'm so happy to have worked with her to figure out what it is I want to do in life.  

Because of this program, I feel a lot better about myself. And I've learned tha it's ok to express my feelings and that I'm allowed to be gentle with myself."

Michele (25, Student)  

"Before I joined this program, I felt locked up in my calendar. I was looking for a feeling of controlling my own time. 

The solution turned out to be to listen very carefully to myself and to choose for myself over and over again. 

This surprised me.  

Evelien doesn't work with a 'one size fits all'-approach. She uses her empathy and her own experiences to really tailor the coaching to me. I loved it!"

Rhea (28, Student)  

It's important to apply quickly.  

Since my time is limited, I don't know if I'll be able to offer this free service forever. So please book your call now if you're on the fence. I wouldn't want you to regret not taking this opportunity!